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<p>While the United States is occupied with the federal challenge to California&#8217;s Proposition 8, Canada has its own pending 
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<p><span>While the United States is occupied with the federal challenge to California&#8217;s Proposition 8, Canada has its own pending</span> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/canada/breakingnews/polygamous-way-of-life-harmful-says-former-bountiful-bc-resident-101407364.html"><br />
<span>marriage case</span></a><span>, which is likely headed for the Canadian Supreme Court. Canada, which redefined marriage nationwide to include same-sex couples in 2005, against the backdrop of successful provincial lawsuits against the country&#8217;s marriage law, could be moving on to bigger things &#8212; literally. Specifically, polygamy and polyamory, as this case invokes the question of whether the government can continue to criminalize multiple-partner marriages.</span> <span>The case itself, initiated by the British Columbia Attorney General under a special provision of that Province&#8217;s law, arises in the wake of failed prosecutions of polygamous sect members in British Columbia.</span></p>
<p><span>Advocates of polygamy and polyamory seem to have an ally in the Law Commission of Canada, a statutory body of government appointees who propose changes to modernize Canadian law and report to the Justice Ministry. In 2001, the Commission issued a report, <em>Beyond Conjugality: Recognizing and Supporting Close Personal Adult Relationships</em>, that questioned the continuing illegality of consensual polygamy in Canada.</span></p>
<p><span>Recently, the case has been uniquely complicated by an intervening interest group called the Canadian Polyamory Advocacy Association. The Association is seeking an adjudication of sorts that the Canadian laws regarding polygamy (one man with more than one wife) do not apply to polyamory (&#8220;</span><span>multiple conjugal relationships</span><span>&#8220;). CPAA&#8217;s &#8220;twist&#8221; on the law is that polyamory is just fine, and ought to be allowed, while polygamy can remain unsuitable for Canadian society. The rationale for their argument is the contention that, beyond the social science data that shows it is harmful, polygamy promotes gender inequality, and often involves coercion </span</p>
<p><span>&#8220;Polyamory,&#8221; by contrast, is strictly egalitarian and consensual, according to CPAA, and thus does not involve or promote one gender over the other. Affidavits filed in court</span> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.ottawacitizen.com/opinion/Polyamorists+fight+share+love/3150648/story.html?id=3150648"> <span>detail</span></a> <span>(1) a woman and her male partner who live and have relationships with two other adults in the household (they also have a child living in the home) and who have agreed that each can pursue relationships with others, (2) a woman who lives with two other men (two of her teenage sons also live in the home), (3) a husband and wife who live with another adult (and the married couples&#8217; two young children and the third person&#8217;s teenage children), and (4) a man who lives with a woman and another man (with whom he is raising a two-year-old child). Polyamory advocates also tout a lack of social science evidence showing any harm from its practice. In other words, the CPAA is arguing that since you can&#8217;t prove that polyamory is bad for society, it must be good. By this rationale, we can all rest assured that Jimmy Hoffa is alive and well.</span></p>
<p><span>It may also be true that there is a dearth of published studies of harm caused by polyamory. This would not be surprising given the novelty of the practice and its small set of practitioners. There seems to be no shortage of breathless stories in newspapers and magazines about these kinds of arrangements but these do not equate to research. Any study of polyamorous &#8220;families&#8221; is likely to be plagued by methodological difficulties &#8212; large holes in data, voluntary samples, reliance on self-reporting, small sample sizes, poor comparisons, and misplaced focus </span></p>
<p><span>Even if the courts accept the egalitarianism, consent, and no data arguments as true, the proposed distinction between multiple-wife polygamy and polyamory in terms of social harms is spurious. In fact, it may be the case that acceptance of polyamory would, if possible, be more harmful.</span></p>
<p><span>For instance, the social science data we do have on children who experience a succession of relationships with parents&#8217; cohabiting partners (a kind of <em>de facto</em> serial polyamory, or as the sociologists call it, &#8220;multiple partner fertility&#8221;) is not encouraging (</span><a rel="nofollow" href="http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=825664"><span>here</span></a><span>and</span> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://marriagelawfoundation.org/publications/Oregon%20Law%20Review.pdf"> here</a><span>). They are at higher risk for abuse, behavioral problems, and household instability. The presence of two sets of unrelated children mentioned in some of the affidavits also does not sound promising for the well-being of younger children. We should not be sanguine, therefore, that children raised in polyamorous homes will be just fine.</span></p>
<p><span>If we take seriously the idea that marriage laws have an educative function, polyamory raises red flags. On each of the core functions of marriage &#8212; promoting fidelity, providing a tie between children and parents, securing permanence for spouses and their children &#8212; polyamory seems particularly harmful. Both traditional polygamy and polyamory promote types of infidelity (though the former is of a more orderly variety), of course, but the chaos of polyamory blurs distinctions of parenthood more significantly than does a setting where a child has an established set of parents and lots of half-siblings. The ethic of &#8220;choice&#8221; at the root of polyamory does not bode well for permanence either </span></p>
<p><span>As complicated as the day to day existence must be for children in homes with multiple adults acting as &#8220;parents,&#8221; the breakup of polyamorous relationships would be dramatically more complicated for children. There would be an exponential increase in the possible divisions of a child&#8217;s time, of decision-making authority and demands for the child&#8217;s loyalty, when the dispute involves three or more people than when only two disputants are involved.</span></p>
<p><span>Clearly, when it comes to marriage, the adage &#8220;the more the merrier&#8221; does not apply.</span></p>
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<p>When Facebook Places, the long-awaited location-based mobile piece of the social Goliath, arrived the other week, the tech and mainstream media alike was a-buzz about the &#8220;Foursquare killer.&#8221; Only thing is Facebook had already said that Places would integrate data from the likes of Foursquare and Gowalla &#8212; executives from those services were [...]]]></description>
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<p>When Facebook Places, the long-awaited location-based mobile piece of the social Goliath, <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/facebook-sign-on-check-in-drop-out/">arrived the other week</a>, the tech and mainstream media alike was a-buzz about the &#8220;Foursquare killer.&#8221; Only thing is Facebook had already said that <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/facebook-readying-its-mobile-social-move/">Places would integrate data from the likes of Foursquare and Gowalla</a> &#8212; executives from those services were actually at the public launch. Dave Marsey, senior vice president of media at Digitas, wisely suggested that although Facebook was bringing massive scale (the polite term for 500 million users) into the space, it wasn&#8217;t going to slay Foursquare and other networks, but lead the path ahead for mobile social.</p>
<p>&#8220;Places will put pressure on [location-based mobile social networks] to share more insights/data given Facebook&#8217;s 500 million user footprint and gives Facebook huge clout in setting the future strategy/direction for location based services,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>Since the launch of Facebook Places, Foursquare has had nearly half a million signups, leaping from 2.6 million pre-Places to just 3 million last week. Apparently the company was expecting to hit that milestone in early September.</p>
<p>As the four days after the Places announcement marked Foursquare&#8217;s biggest growth spurt ever, <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.businessinsider.com/how-facebook-places-boosted-foursquare-past-the-3-million-user-mark-2010-8">Silicon Alley Insider</a> makes this deduction: </p>
<p>&#8220;Mainstream media outlets deemed Places worthy of their attention. Virtually all of them described the service as a &#8216;Foursquare-killer.&#8217; This left readers wondering: &#8216;what the hell is Foursquare?&#8217; So they looked Foursquare up in Google, and many of these readers started an account.&#8221;</p>
<p>We digital folks world are so consumed in our world of apps and smartphones, we forget the American public isn&#8217;t always up to date with the latest marvels of technology. However, considering how much <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/19/technology/internet/19foursquare.html">mainstream coverage</a> Foursquare in particular has received (as well as a <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.theonion.com/articles/new-social-networking-site-changing-the-way-oh-chr,17465/">brutally hilarious <em>Onion</em> piece</a>), I don&#8217;t think location-based mobile social networks were that much of a mystery.</p>
<p>At a cafe recently, I was joking with a industry guy about checking in on Foursquare (I think I&#8217;ve checked in four places total &#8212; I kinda like being at undisclosed locations.) and the barista overheard and asked if she could see the app. She&#8217;d heard about it but had never seen it in action, so I checked in and showed her the mayor of the cafe &#8212; &#8220;Oh yeah, she gets soy lattes here all the time,&#8221; the barista replied.</p>
<p>My guess is, like my barista, people knew about Foursquare and it&#8217;s location-based ilk, but Facebook Places legitimized it, made it safe for the masses. <em>&#8220;I dunno about this location-based social networking &#8212; oh wait, Facebook&#8217;s got it? Well maybe it&#8217;s OK, I&#8217;ll set me up an account, hee hee hee. Check in at trendy bar&#8230; Oh wow, I got me a badge already!&#8221;</em></p>
<p>At an Ogilvy-hosted <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/05/location-based-mobile-network-battle-no-fierce-clash-yet/">chummy panel discussion  of location-based mobile social networks</a> that included representatives from Foursquare, Buzzd, Loopt and BrightKite, I asked if it was feasible for so many moso networks to coexist &#8212; sure, the sector was in its infancy, but weren&#8217;t they going to start bumping shoulders as more mobile users checked in?</p>
<p>The general sentiment held that it was great how many different options mobile users had and they saw such diversity thriving in the future. In fact, as Places was still gathering speed on the rumor mill at the time, the participants were anticipating Facebook&#8217;s entry and excited about the attention it would bring the space. Seems pretty prescient now.</p>
<p>Interestingly, one moso guy expressed his displeasure that Facebook is akin to the Roman Empire of the online world &#8212; shouldn&#8217;t there be more competition? We can always wonder if News Corp. hadn&#8217;t bought MySpace and squeezed every dime of cheap display revenue instead of improving network functionality, would the two still be rivals? MySpace&#8217;s new layout and design changes are a <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/ever-struggling-myspace-hires-agency-for-relaunch/">bit too close to Facebook for comfort</a>, but what if the network had made such changes years ago &#8212; when they would have been relevant?</p>
<p>Coulda, woulda, shoulda&#8230; MySpace&#8217;s ad revenue keeps <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/ever-struggling-myspace-hires-agency-for-relaunch/">sinking</a> &#8212; it looks like the iceberg penetrated one hull too many. So we turn to the new challengers: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/what-kind-of-party-will-diaspora-throw/">Diaspora</a>, with its ambitious approach to data privacy, and <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/google-takes-slide-facebook-in-lockdown/">Google Me</a>, which has piqued curiosity across the Internet.</p>
<p>However, on the mobile-social front, the population is already pretty mixed, and it appears the diverse ecosystem is going to survive for a while.</p>
<p><span><a rel="clipsource" target="_blank" title="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/foursquare-soars-thanks-to-facebook-places/" href="http://www.adotas.com/2010/08/foursquare-soars-thanks-to-facebook-places/">Read more at www.adotas.com</a></span></td>
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Social networking users should be careful when accepting friend requests and to be conscious of the data they share.</p>
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<td>Social networking users should be careful when accepting friend requests and to be conscious of the data they share.</p>
<p>According to a new study by BitDefender, social network users do not appear to be preoccupied with the real identity of the people they meet online or about the details they disclose while chatting with total strangers.</p>
<p>The study revealed that 94 percent of those asked to &#8220;friend&#8221; the test profile, an unknown, attractive young woman, accepted the request without knowing who the requester really was.</p>
<p>The study sample group included 2,000 users from all over the world registered on one of the most popular social networks. These users were randomly chosen in order to cover different aspects: sex (1,000 females, 1,000 males), age (the sample ranged from 17 to 65 years with a mean age of 27.3 years), professional affiliation, interests etc. </p>
<p>In the first step, the users were only requested to add the unknown test profile as their friend, while in the second step several conversations with randomly selected users aimed to determine what kind of details they would disclose.</p>
<p>The study showed:
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<li>More than 86 percent of the users who accepted the test-profile&#8217;s friend request work in the IT industry, of which 31 percent work in IT Security</li>
<li>The most frequent reason for accepting the test profile&#8217;s friend request was her &#8220;lovely face&#8221; (53 percent)</li>
<li>After a half an hour conversation, 10 percent disclosed personal sensitive information, such as: address, phone number, mother&#8217;s and father&#8217;s name, etc &#8211; information usually requested as answers to password recovery questions</li>
<li>Two hours later, 73 percent siphoned what appears to be confidential information from their workplace, such as future strategies, plans, as well as unreleased technologies/software.</li>
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<p><span><a rel="clipsource" target="_blank" title="http://www.net-security.org/secworld.php?id=9793" href="http://www.net-security.org/secworld.php?id=9793">Read more at www.net-security.org</a></span></td>
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		<title>Twitter Moves to OAuth: The OAuthcalypse Is Nigh</title>
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<p>Twitter is killing support for basic user authentication in third-party apps on Tuesday morning, the company says. Instead, Twitter will now require all third-party app developers to use OAuth for user authentication.</p>
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<p>Twitter is killing support for basic user authentication in third-party apps on Tuesday morning, the company says. Instead, Twitter will now require all third-party app developers to <a rel="nofollow" href="http://blog.twitter.com/2010/08/twitter-applications-and-oauth.html">use OAuth</a> for user authentication.</p>
<p>This is a planned move Twitter first announced in December, and the company has posted a <a rel="nofollow" href="http://dev.twitter.com/pages/basic_auth_shutdown">help page</a> on its developer site with some resources meant to ease the transition to OAuth.</p>
<p>The <a rel="nofollow" href="http://twitter.com/twitterapi">Twitter API team</a> has been dialing down the number of requests an app can make using the basic authorization method. That number will hit zero at 8AM Pacific time Tuesday.</p>
<p>Some bloggers have given the event the catchy name, &#8220;<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.google.com/search?tbs=mbl%3A1&amp;hl=en&amp;source=hp&amp;q=oauthcalypse">OAuthcalypse</a>&#8221; &#8212; a bit of a mouthful, but so is &#8220;user authentication protocol&#8221; &#8212; the implication being that when basic authentication is switched off, it will break old software and leave users in the dark. But since Twitter has given developers ample warning of the change, the switch will only lock out a small number of apps. </p>
<p>Twitter&#8217;s move mirrors a broader trend on the social web, where basic authentication is being ditched for the more secure OAuth when services and applications connect user&#8217;s accounts.</p>
<p>In basic authentication, a website or app will say, &#8220;Hey, do you want to share whatever you&#8217;re doing here with your friends on Twitter? Give me your Twitter username and password and I&#8217;ll hook up your accounts.&#8221; By passing along your info, you&#8217;re giving that app or website unlimited access to everything in your Twitter account. Pretty dangerous, and not secure.</p>
<p>In OAuth authentication, the website or app will send you to Twitter where you sign yourself in, then Twitter will tell the website or app &#8220;Yeah, they are who they say they are.&#8221; The website or app only gains the ability to do certain things with your account &#8212; post, read, reply, search &#8212; while staying locked out from the more sensitive stuff.</p>
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He has a point.
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10 Pitfalls to Avoid in Social Media Marketing
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An open letter to CRM and Social Media people
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<div class="delicious-link"><a href="http://alexblom.com/blog/2010/08/socialmediagurussuck/">Why social media gurus should be trampled by elephants</a></div>
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<div class="delicious-link"><a href="http://socialmediatoday.com/mitcharnowitz/170379/10-pitfalls-avoid-social-media-marketing">10 Pitfalls to Avoid in Social Media Marketing</a></div>
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<div class="delicious-link"><a href="http://www.jmorganmarketing.com/an-open-letter-to-crm-and-social-media-people/">An open letter to CRM and Social Media people</a></div>
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<div class="delicious-link"><a href="http://www.physorg.com/news202139512.html">Location determines social network influence, study finds</a></div>
<div class="delicious-extended">Interesting comparison of the spread of information in social networks and the spread of infectious diseases.</div>
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<div class="delicious-extended">The entire article is well worth a read. More resources can be found at http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=326098194662</div>
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<p>I admit to having ridden the social media bandwagon from the start &#8212; mainly because I had to see how things would play out &#8212; but I&#8217;ve always been skeptical about its impact. Is anyone reading what you have to say? Do they even care? With so much information flowing, how can anything [...]]]></description>
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<p>I admit to having ridden the social media bandwagon from the start &#8212; mainly because I had to see how things would play out &#8212; but I&#8217;ve always been skeptical about its impact. Is anyone reading what you have to say? Do they even care? With so much information flowing, how can anything be absorbed? The same goes for social features accompanying products. Does friending and following add value to your product or is it a distraction? Value to me is measured in dollar signs &#8212; not pageviews and certainly not friend requests or follow count.</p>
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<h5>Don&#8217;t Hire Social Media People</h5>
<p>I&#8217;m going to offend a lot of people with this statement, but I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s a place for a &#8220;social media&#8221; person (what some people refer to as a &#8220;community manager&#8221;) in your company. Tweeting, Tumblring, Facebooking, blogging, etc., are all routine tasks that can be performed by any person out there with basic English skills and a friendly personality. The person doing this can also be the founder, a developer, a marketing person or the person that answers email. It&#8217;s just not a full-time job.</p>
<p>The benefits of having someone dedicated to these tasks, whatever they may be, don&#8217;t add up to a wise use of resources. As Leo Laporte <a rel="nofollow" title="Buzz Kill" href="http://leoville.com/buzz-kill">wrote</a> last week after he discovered that nobody was listening despite his tens of thousands of followers: &#8220;I was shouting into a vast echo chamber where no one could hear me because they were too busy shouting themselves. All this time I&#8217;ve been pumping content into the void like some chatterbox Onan.&#8221;</p>
<p>At <a rel="nofollow" title="Carbonmade" href="http://carbonmade.com/">Carbonmade</a>, we just announced our fifth full-time person, <a rel="nofollow" title="Mike Minnick" href="http://worldwarmike.tumblr.com/">Mike Minnick</a>, who has been handling emails and what nowadays constitutes social media stuff for us during the past few months part-time. Mike is great at his job. The impact Mike has had since he started working with us has been amazing, but it primarily comes in the form of quick and thorough email responses &#8212; something measurable &#8212; rather than in numbers of new followers.</p>
<p>Mike is atypical. He didn&#8217;t go to college. Instead he toured the world as the lead singer of a Hardcore band called <a rel="nofollow" title="Curl Up and Die" href="http://www.myspace.com/curlupanddie">Curl Up and Die</a> &#8212; it had a large cult following &#8212; and worked most of the past few years at a comic book store. He&#8217;s covered in tattoos, but one of the nicest guys I know with a personality so charming that everyone (man or woman) who meets him falls in love.</p>
<p>But Mike wasn&#8217;t hired to tweet for us. We hired him around a measurable need (responding to customers&#8217; emails) rather than a fantasy. That&#8217;s what the concept that drives &#8220;social media&#8221; is. It&#8217;s a fantasy that having 100 or 1,000 more friends or followers will bring you more business even though social networks are nothing more than echo chambers in which nobody is listening.</p>
<h5>Not Every Product Needs to Be Social!</h5>
<p>There&#8217;s an obvious difference between social media and having social features on your website. The former is a <em>marketing</em> technique and the latter is a product feature. Social features certainly make sense on some sites, but, as with gaming mechanics, they are way overused, often incorrectly.</p>
<p>Carbonmade is evidence that every website doesn&#8217;t need to launch with social features to be popular and successful. We&#8217;re the largest online portfolio website with over 250,000 portfolios and counting &#8212; all without a single social feature. Madness?</p>
<p>We&#8217;re not Facebook. We&#8217;re not a social network and probably your company isn&#8217;t either. We don&#8217;t necessarily need or <em>want</em> our users talking and friending each other. Instead of spending valuable development hours on hooking in social networking features, we&#8217;d rather spend them on our unique product. You can only force-feed people the same features on every site before they&#8217;ll all revolt: &#8220;Boring! I&#8217;ve seen that before.&#8221;</p>
<p>Now with some products it makes sense: <a rel="nofollow" title="Foursquare" href="http://foursquare.com">Foursquare</a>, for example, because it is a social platform, with game mechanics their bread and butter. It makes sense for them because they are building toward exactly what they want to be: a social platform. They&#8217;re not just tacking social features onto a product that doesn&#8217;t require them. Please stop doing that.</p>
<p>On the flip side, I&#8217;m scared for Foursquare because their product really is only social, and with the launch of Facebook Places, there&#8217;s little to differentiate them. However, they&#8217;re very smart folks at Foursquare, and I&#8217;m confident they&#8217;ll survive by figuring out how to reinvent themselves.</p>
<h5>Measuring Matters</h5>
<p>I&#8217;m happy to see more and more companies being built around the idea of analytics. Analytics have been around for a while &#8212; mainly analytics that measure web traffic, like <a rel="nofollow" title="Google Analytics" href="http://www.google.com/analytics/">Google Analytics</a> &#8212; but now we&#8217;re seeing another group of companies looking at measuring in a different way. Those companies include <a rel="nofollow" title="KISSmetrics" href="http://www.kissmetrics.com/">KISSmetrics</a>, <a rel="nofollow" title="Chatbeart" href="http://chartbeat.com/">Chatbeart</a>, <a rel="nofollow" title="StatsMix" href="http://statsmix.com/">StatsMix</a>, <a rel="nofollow" title="Chart.io" href="http://chart.io/">Chart.io</a> and others. I think these forms of quantifying are important.</p>
<p>Social media marketing can&#8217;t be measured, at least not effectively. Spending money on social media marketing reminds me of the early 2000s, when you couldn&#8217;t measure the effectiveness of banner ads. Everyone was spending on it without knowing what the outcome was. This trend ended up dying out when a more measurable and effective advertisement system came in: <a rel="nofollow" title="Google's AdWords" href="http://adwords.google.com/">Google&#8217;s AdWords</a>. Companies began to be focused on click-through ratio and conversions rather than pageviews (the modern day equivalent of pageviews being followers/friends).</p>
<p>If I weren&#8217;t working on Carbonmade, I&#8217;d be working on better ways to analyze and measure data effectively. Numbers don&#8217;t lie, and there&#8217;s a lot of incoming data that needs making sense of. I anticipate huge fallout for companies over the next 12 to 24 months because they were built around too many assumptions about the vitality of the social space and not enough concrete, measurable facts. Social media marketing, social features and game mechanics will prove to have been the culprits.</p>
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<p>Several weeks ago I wrote that social media is not new. I only partially called out the pony, rainbow and unicorn practitioners though. I&#8217;ve been &#8216;doing the Twitter&#8217; for years now and social media gurus there is what teenage girls once were to Myspace. Worse, these gurus claim to be [...]]]></description>
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<p>Several weeks ago I wrote that <a rel="nofollow" href="http://alexblom.com/blog/2010/08/social-media-is-not-new/">social media is not new</a>. I only partially called out the pony, rainbow and unicorn practitioners though. I&#8217;ve been &#8216;doing the Twitter&#8217; for years now and social media gurus there is what teenage girls once were to Myspace. Worse, these gurus claim to be offering professional services.</p>
<div>If I had my say they would all be trampled by elephants. So, without further ado, here are my top 5 reasons your social media guy needs to be trampled by an elephant.&#160;<strong>Note: </strong>I&#8217;m not saying all social guys are bad, stretching it you can call me one. I&#8217;ve stated before that social works. What I&#8217;m railing against are the people who fit my description below.</div>
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<h5>Ponies, Rainbows and Unicorns</h5>
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<p>Ask them what they do. The answer: I engage people, I create relationships, I add a layer of transparency. They may as well talk about ponies, rainbows and unicorns.</p>
<p>Now, my friends, is when we run screaming. I can put glass dividers in an office and add transparency. Engaging people is useless without anchoring it to a brand and a business goal. Ask them specifically what they do and who they target (i.e. I create digital campaigns to demographic x to inform them of product y). Gold star if they can hit 1/2. Sometimes the sun, stars, moon and seas are perfectly aligned and somebody can answer this.</p>
<p>Perhaps one of my favourite past-times at conferences is to talk to these guys, telling them &#8216;engaging people&#8217; does not count and ask for something more specific. Watch their heads explode, <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9H4prE95LE0">just like here</a>. I see it as public service.</p>
<h5>What&#8217;s a bottom line?</h5>
<p>When talking to the next social media &#8216;guru&#8217; you meet, ask them what bottom line impact their campaigns had. Note: bottom line is not engaged people, viral buzz or new followers; bottom line is the amount of sales their campaign generated, customer support queries it solved etc.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let them talk about ponies, rainbows and unicorns here. Maybe they just never did &#8220;math&#8221; in school so be really basic: You were paid this much by the big nice executive. In turn, you generated him this many dollars so he had this many left over.</p>
<h5>Social Media is &#8216;it&#8217;</h5>
<p>As I&#8217;ve pointed out before, social media is not the everything. It is a component of something bigger. Perhaps it is aligned with your recruitment strategy (run screaming if they had never thought of this). Maybe it is timed with other marketing activities. But when you meet one who honestly believes everything can be solved socially take pity, it is not their fault. Some people are not born as smart as others. You know, the ones who don&#8217;t move for the elephant.</p>
<h5>I can&#8217;t afford a graphics guy</h5>
<p>Yep, I thought the Myspacer&#8217;s were terrible but I think the gurus have taken the crown. We all put photos on our site but seriously guys, get a professional photo and photoshop it properly. There is no excuse to have white edges on your photos from a poor cut out nor should I feel like you just scanned last night&#8217;s DUI photos.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry though, social media gurus, I get that these professional services are expensive and you can&#8217;t afford them. That&#8217;s because you don&#8217;t understand business and can&#8217;t charge for what you do. I&#8217;ve taken the liberty of doing some research, most Universities offer great marketing programs.</p>
<h5>Wait, my Apple runs on Unix? or What&#8217;s a Unix?</h5>
<p>Betting on a social guru with no technology training is like betting on the Mayans. No, they don&#8217;t have to be coders, engineers or designers but you need to fundamentally understand your field. Would you hire a plumber who didn&#8217;t know water went downhill?</p>
<p>If your guru lacks any technical knowledge it&#8217;s time to call the elephants over.</p>
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<p>We are in the middle of a social media bubble. Every company is wildly chasing after the promised rewards of social media with very few actually investing and scaling in a sustainable way. Most companies seem to be throwing a grenade of attention, time and money at social media instead of developing an [...]]]></description>
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<p>We are in the middle of a social media bubble. Every company is wildly chasing after the promised rewards of social media with very few actually investing and scaling in a sustainable way. Most companies seem to be throwing a grenade of attention, time and money at social media instead of developing an objective, rational battle plan.</p>
<p>The early successes of first-movers in the social space has triggered a mass crusade of companies who have unreasonable targets and bloated expectations.The benefits of simply &#8220;doing&#8221; social media are showing quickly decreasing returns as the first-mover premium wears off. Innovation in social media marketing and presences is pacing well behind the rate of market saturation, which will lead to a social media space that is too crowded to provide the expected returns of these companies now making significant investments.</p>
<p>The social media bubble will burst when consumers get tired of companies&#8217; inauthentic and unoriginal presences and promotions. Consumers don&#8217;t want to &#8220;like&#8221; 1000 brands on Facebook, and they don&#8217;t want read the blog of their local dry cleaners. The market will crash when consumers start ignoring bland, blatant attempts by late-comer companies who are now overloading our social networks and attention streams.</p>
<p>When (not if) the bubble does burst, the market will correct itself and refocus it&#8217;s potential on the companies that understand the fundamental systems and mechanisms of social media. The companies that were just attracted by the buzz of shiny success stories will bear the brunt of the crash, as they should. And those that spend the time and money in the short-term to invest in a stable, sustainable and value-adding social media presence will emerge to reap the long-term returns.</p>
<p><span><a rel="clipsource" target="_blank" title="http://www.socialmediatoday.com/ericfulwiler/165694/how-social-media-bubble-will-burst" href="http://www.socialmediatoday.com/ericfulwiler/165694/how-social-media-bubble-will-burst">Read more at www.socialmediatoday.com</a></span></td>
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Would you rather have a marriage that drifts into dull and comfortable, or would you rather gamble for the relationship dynamic you really crave? 
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<p>I used to be a girl who never took risks. Two years ago, the most exciting thing I did was or go to the occasional Renaissance Faire or watch the Gilmore Girls while knitting.&nbsp; And though I still love all of these things, they aren&#8217;t exactly the highlights of my week any more.&nbsp; In truth, I sometimes look around me these days and scarcely recognize my life&mdash;except that it&#8217;s the life I fantasized about for ages but was too scared to seek.</p>
<p>I think a lot of polycurious folk hesitate to make the Poly Plunge because they&#8217;re frightened of letting go of things that are comfortable and secure.&nbsp; What if you become poly and all of your friends and family shun you for your renunciation of normalcy?&nbsp; What if your stable marriage dissolves when the two of you fall in love with other people (or even the same person)?&nbsp; I say: A wise person has to make risk calculations.&nbsp; <strong>Are friends and family who demand your conformity the people you want to write the priorities for your life?&nbsp;</strong> Would you rather have a marriage that drifts into dull and comfortable, or would you rather gamble for the relationship dynamic you really crave?&nbsp; In every case, it comes down to the stakes.</p>
<p>For me personally, making the Poly Plunge would have been impossible if I&#8217;d had children, for example, because I could reluctantly choose to gamble my marriage, but not my family (I certainly don&#8217;t mean to criticize people who would choose differently, though).&nbsp; And when it comes to choosing between your family of origin and the life you want, well&#8230; I can&#8217;t lie: I don&#8217;t know many poly folks who have close ties to their extended families by birth.&nbsp; Most poly folks I know vastly prefer their Chosen Families, and the Goddess knows, a successful poly life has no shortage of people, as I&#8217;ve blogged about previously.&nbsp; But then, the topic of Out &amp; Poly deserves its own post.</p>
<p>For me personally, becoming poly was part of a larger process of deliberately choosing to take more risks.&nbsp; I started by spinning fire for the first time (I had been diligently practicing for years), which, if you&#8217;ve never done it, produces an incredible high.&nbsp; A week later, I ended up in a public sex playspace.&nbsp; From that point on, I&#8217;ve been trying to carefully choose the risks I consider worthwhile as I stumbled into a firespinning band and an increasingly complicated poly life.</p>
<p>Psychological research suggests that the people who are most satisfied with their lives are not people who live comfortable staid lives, or people who constantly seek out new adventure and thrills.&nbsp; Because about a third of the population falls into this group, engineer William Gurstelle (author of Absinthe and Flamethrowers) nicknames this happy group of people who take carefully chosen risks &#8220;the golden third.&#8221;&nbsp; I aspire to count myself among them, even though I don&#8217;t drink, smoke, or do drugs, I&#8217;m scared of heights, and I don&#8217;t like crowds of strangers.&nbsp; But the risks I&#8217;ve chosen&#8211;playing with fire, and having a husband AND a boyfriend&mdash;are risks that have thus far made me a much happier woman.</p>
<p>This, for me, is the golden third. Knock on wood.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2010 23:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Over the past few months (and perhaps more so over the past few weeks) I&#8217;ve noticed a growing tension between the Customer Relationship Management (CRM) and the social media folks.&#160; In some instances this has led to direct name calling in public mediums -&#160; which is rather unfortunate.&#160; The advent or evolution of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Over the past few months (and perhaps more so over the past few weeks) I&#8217;ve noticed a growing tension between the Customer Relationship Management (CRM) and the social media folks.&#160; In some instances this has led to direct name calling in public mediums -&#160; which is rather unfortunate.&#160; The advent or evolution of CRM into Social CRM is merging disciplines together; chiefly CRM and social media, this is causing a bit of a clash between the two camps (in my opinion).&#160; Bickering, arguing, name calling, and ignoring one another isn&#8217;t going to help anyone.&#160; Many of you might disagree with what I say and some of you might leave me angry comments in the comments section.&#160; I know if I don&#8217;t say this nobody else will&#8230;</p>
<h5>To the social media people:</h5>
<p>I understand that you are passionate about social media and have a lot of great ideas on how to do things.&#160; However, it&#8217;s very important to understand that CRM is an integral part of how many businesses function and acquire and retain customers.&#160; If you were to ask me 2 years ago I&#8217;d tell you I was a social media guy (today I&#8217;d like to say I&#8217;m somewhere in between).&#160; I&#8217;ve developed global social media strategies, presented executive training sessions, spoke at conference, etc.&#160; But I was not at all involved with CRM.&#160; Over the past year I have tried to get as much involved with CRM as I possibly could.&#160; Both from a practical and theoretical standpoint.&#160; There&#8217;s A LOT more learning that needs to take place but I can say that what I&#8217;ve learned so far about CRM has dramatically improved my understanding of how organizations work and how a social &#8220;anything&#8221; needs to fit within an organization.&#160; Without an understanding of CRM I truly believe that many social media efforts are from from being up to par.</p>
<p>Most social media consultants in the world are marketers, content creators, and technology aficionados.&#160; There is A LOT that can be learned from the CRM guys in the world who have been working with these same organizations for over the past 20+ years on building and developing customer engagement strategies and business processes.&#160; The reality is that CRM guys understand how businesses work better than social media guys, I&#8217;m sorry but that&#8217;s just how it is and the sooner it&#8217;s accepted the sooner collaboration can begin.&#160; I&#8217;ve witnessed (several times) first hand how social media people discuss social CRM without understanding what CRM even is to begin with, this is not right.&#160; I think for the most part the social media folks have a far larger public audience and reach more than most folks in the CRM world which is why I think it&#8217;s so important to really help readers understand exactly what some of these topics are and how things really work.</p>
<p>Please work closer with and learn from the amazing CRM guys in the industry.&#160; They have an absolute wealth of knowledge that will make you more effective and valuable to your clients.&#160; Please try to talk to them, respond to their comments (because they bring up some very compelling issues), and try to understand where they are coming from.&#160; Remember they are just as passionate as you are.</p>
<h5>To the CRM people</h5>
<p>I understand that you have been working with organizations on business process and customer strategy far longer than most social media people have.&#160; However, social media guys have a VERY solid (and better) understanding of how to reach customers online in various social channels and how to build these solid customer relationships.&#160; Believe it or not, these same social media guys are the ones running these global social initiatives for virtually every company in the world (that is involved with social media), so many of them clearly understand what they are doing from the social side of things.&#160; Social media guys can actually be a great business source for CRM guys and vice versa.&#160; CRM guys (and yes gals too) are faced with an interesting challenge of adapting and changing their existing ways of doing things to keep up with the change in customer behavior along with the changes and evolutions of social channels.&#160; I hate to say it but the social media guys understand social channels and how to reach customers far better than most CRM guys; however as I mentioned before, the CRM guys understand businesses processes and strategy (perhaps not so much the tactical side of things on social channels).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be the first to admit that the CRM group feels a little bit like an &#8220;old boys country club&#8221; sometimes.&#160; Maybe it&#8217;s just me but online it feels like a tightly guarded close knit community of people that really focus on talking to each other.&#160; Hey I&#8217;m being honest.&#160; I think the CRM community needs to do a much better job of &#8220;opening up&#8221; so to speak and to make things a little bit less intimidating.&#160; I learn more from the CRM crowd that I can possibly explain but the learning has always come with its fair share of scrapes and bruises, which I don&#8217;t mind at all but perhaps others will find this quite discouraging.&#160; I really respect a lot of the people in the CRM community and the work they all do.&#160; I feel like the CRM community is much more conservative than the social media community and perhaps that causes some sort of tension as well.&#160; The benefit of the social media community not understanding CRM is that they oftentimes can ask questions that really get to the heart of certain issues or perhaps bring up points that CRM guys just didn&#8217;t think about before. I know it&#8217;s frustrating to see a lot of social media consultants talk about social CRM while neglecting the very foundation of CRM but it&#8217;s not usually out of slight that this happens.</p>
<p>Again, the social media guys are just as passionate as the CRM guys and I think it will become just as important to understand the back end business processes as it will the front end tactical and customer facing execution pieces that many of the social media consultants are so good at.</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s my letter to everyone.&#160; Take it as you will.&#160; Perhaps you don&#8217;t agree with anything I said but that&#8217;s fine.&#160; The whole point of what I&#8217;m trying to say is stop bitching and building up this barrier between the two disciplines.&#160; Both CRM and social media professionals need to work together to make this happen so start learning from each other (I&#8217;m trying).&#160; It&#8217;s not about arguing or name calling or trying to own a piece of a market that isn&#8217;t anywhere near maturity.&#160; It&#8217;s about a shared understanding and a collaborative business evolution that at the end of the day has the clients best interest in mind.</p>
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		<title>13 Horrific Social Media Practices</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 20:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>1. #Placing a #hashtag #before #each #word of a #tweet</p>
<p>2. Ensuring that every tweet includes an @reply with your name. Nope that doesn&#8217;t increase your Klout&#8230;</p>
<p>3. Arbitrary people @replying you in their tweets trying to sell you something&#8230;tr&#232;s annoying</p>
<p>4. Complaining about your job , bosses, relationships and life in general day after day [...]]]></description>
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<p>1. #Placing a #hashtag #before #each #word of a #tweet</p>
<p>2. Ensuring that every tweet includes an @reply with your name. Nope that doesn&#8217;t increase your Klout&#8230;</p>
<p>3. Arbitrary people @replying you in their tweets trying to sell you something&#8230;tr&#232;s annoying</p>
<p>4. Complaining about your job , bosses, relationships and life in general day after day after day&#8230;Get over yourself</p>
<p>5. Providing sage quotes as your status updates daily&#8230;yes you&#8217;re clever, very clever</p>
<p>6. Faceless, nameless entities commenting on blog posts with the line &#8220;Great Post/ Great Content&#8230;I found it useful&#8221; and leading back to some dodgy link. Thank goodness for askimet and by the way we know you are a bot.</p>
<p>7. The demise of Google Wave&#8230;I&#8217;m probably one of the few who will miss you.</p>
<p>8. Posting unflattering pics of yourselves and receiving &#8216;Wow&#8230;great photo&#8230;you look lovely&#8217; comments from friends. Note to you, they aren&#8217;t really your friends.</p>
<p>9. Friends tagging you in unflattering photos. Are these really your friends?</p>
<p>10. Not having the dsilike button on Facebook.</p>
<p>11. Having the dislike button but knowing I&#8217;ll never use it because &#8216;my friends&#8217; may be offended.  I&#8217;m human after all , can&#8217;t live with&#8230; can&#8217;t live without</p>
<p>12. Fanpages that don&#8217;t allow fan comments by default.</p>
<p>13. Forums which insist that you must add their logo before you can participate /get an invite / use them.</p>
<p><span><a rel="clipsource" target="_blank" title="http://www.socialmediatoday.com/deidrebrathwaite/161907/13-horrific-social-media-practices" href="http://www.socialmediatoday.com/deidrebrathwaite/161907/13-horrific-social-media-practices">Read more at www.socialmediatoday.com</a></span></td>
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