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<div class="delicious-extended">Super User is a Q&amp;A site for computer enthusiasts that&#39;s free. Free to ask questions, free to answer questions, free to read, free to index, built with plain old HTML, no fake rot13 text on the home page, no scammy google-cloaking tactics, no salespeople, no JavaScript windows dropping down in front of the answer asking for $12.95 to go away. You can register if you want to collect karma and win valuable flair that will appear next to your name, but otherwise, it&#39;s just free. And fast. Very, very fast.</div>
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<div class="delicious-extended">A real conversation with a friend (or friend-of-friend) can be much more helpful than searching the web — all the knowledge and experience in people’s heads can’t be put on a web page! With Aardvark, there’s nothing to download or install: just send Aardvark a message through IM, like you do when talking to a friend. Aardvark figures out who might be able to answer, and asks on your behalf — Aardvark is the hub. It’s all about people helping each other out!</div>
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		<title>52 Tips for Happiness and Productivity</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Try rising early. It&#8217;s not for everyone, I&#8217;ll
admit. It may not be for you. But I&#8217;ve found it to be an amazing change
in my life. It has made the start of my days much more positive, and I
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<li><strong>Try rising early</strong>. It&#8217;s not for everyone, I&#8217;ll<br />
admit. It may not be for you. But I&#8217;ve found it to be an amazing change<br />
in my life. It has made the start of my days much more positive, and I<br />
now have time for writing, exercise, and silent contemplation. I talked<br />
about this recently in my post <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/10-benefits-of-rising-early-and-how-to-do-it/">10 Benefits of Rising Early, and How to Do It</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Do less</strong>. This is both a happiness and productivity<br />
tip. Doing less will make you happier, because your life won&#8217;t be so<br />
hectic and filled with stress. You will have time for things that give<br />
you pleasure, for the loved ones in your life, for life itself. It&#8217;s<br />
also a productivity tip: if you focus on the essential tasks, the big<br />
ones, the ones that will give you the most return for your time, and<br />
eliminate the rest, you will actually be more productive. You&#8217;ll get<br />
fewer tasks done, but you will be more effective. See <a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity/how-to-pare-your-to-do-list-down-to-the-essentials.html">How to Pare Your To-do List Down to the Essentials</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Slow down</strong>. Many new readers to this site have read<br />
my productivity articles and think that I&#8217;m all about being<br />
hyper-productive. I&#8217;m not. Long-time readers know that I am about a<br />
simpler way of life. Unfortunately, in my free-lance blogging, other<br />
websites usually ask me to write about productivity, so the<br />
preponderance of my productivity writing has given the impression, I<br />
think, that I think people should be churning out work at an amazing<br />
rate, to the exclusion of all else. Actually, I feel that life is much<br />
more enjoyable if you slow down. By doing less, you can actually get<br />
more done, even if you work more slowly. And when you&#8217;re not working,<br />
you should definitely try switching to slow mode. Drive slower (it is<br />
so much more relaxing), walk slower, eat slower. See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/slow-down-to-enjoy-life/">Slow Down to Enjoy Life</a> for more.</li>
<li><strong>Practice patience</strong>. I&#8217;ve talked about how I&#8217;m trying to develop patience in my parenting article, <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/how-to-become-a-patient-parent/">How to Become a Patient Parent</a>,<br />
but these tips really apply to everyone. If you easily lose your<br />
temper, you can become more patient with these tips. Once you&#8217;ve<br />
developed this skill (and it&#8217;s a skill, like everything else, not an<br />
unchangeable inborn trait), your life will become much saner and you<br />
will be much happier.</li>
<li><strong>Practice compassion</strong>. This may be the most<br />
important tip of all, in my opinion. If you were to choose any of<br />
these, I would choose this one. The first part of compassion is empathy and this ability to understand how others feel can be developed<br />
through practice. Start by imagining the suffering of a loved one.<br />
Understand their pain, the emotions they go through, and why they would<br />
react the way they would. By doing this exercise a number of times, you<br />
are developing a skill that can be applied to others for every person<br />
you see, try to understand what they are going through. Try to learn<br />
and understand more about their background, and why they react the way<br />
they do. Once you&#8217;ve developed this invaluable skill, learn the other<br />
half of compassion acting on your understanding, and helping others,<br />
alleviating their suffering, acting with kindness. This one thing can<br />
bring true happiness to your life, and the lives of those around you.</li>
<li><strong>Find your passion</strong>. Another indispensable tip. This<br />
might be the second on my list of priorities. Find something you love<br />
to do, and your life will become immensely improved. You will love your<br />
work, the thing that you spend 40 hours (or more) a week doing. You<br />
will become more productive, procrastinate less, be less stressed. You<br />
will produce something you are proud of, and happy about. Read <a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/how-to-find-your-passion.html">this article for some practical tips</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Lose weight</strong>. This only applies, of course, if you<br />
are overweight. But losing your extra fat (and when I say lose weight,<br />
I mean lose fat), decreases your health risks (obviously), makes you<br />
look better, and in general is very likely to increase your happiness<br />
about yourself. I actually recommend that you learn to be comfortable<br />
and happy with how you look now, and not feel negative about yourself<br />
even if you are overweight. However, I&#8217;ve found that losing weight (at<br />
least for me) is a great way to feel better about your body. Do not<br />
make this an unhealthy obsession, however lose weight gradually, and<br />
enjoy the process. See the next two tips for the best methods for doing<br />
this.</li>
<li><strong>Exercise</strong>. Make this a daily habit. Exercise not<br />
only helps you lose weight, but for me, it&#8217;s made me feel so much<br />
better. I actually enjoy exercise now. It&#8217;s a time of contemplation for<br />
me, and I feel so much better about myself afterwards. See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/top-42-exercise-hacks/">Top 42 Exercise Hacks</a> and <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/how-to-make-exercise-a-daily-habit-with-a-may-challenge/">How to Make Exercise a Daily Habit</a> and <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/7-ways-to-build-the-exercise-habit/">7 Ways to Build the Exercise Habit</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Eat healthy</strong>. I don&#8217;t recommend dieting. It&#8217;s too<br />
restrictive and you usually fall off it at some point. I do recommend<br />
changes to your diet, however ones you make gradually, and that can<br />
be sustained for life. It not only helps lose weight, but really, once<br />
you start eating healthier, it is actually much more enjoyable. See my <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/top-15-diet-hacks/">Top 15 Diet Hacks for more</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Meditate</strong>. OK, you might be like me not into<br />
New-Age stuff. But meditation can actually be a very simple method for<br />
relaxing, for bringing calm, for returning yourself to sanity, for<br />
contemplation. My friend Scott Young wrote a <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/solve-tough-problems-with-a-brain-reboot/">good post about doing that here</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Get organized</strong>. This one&#8217;s not necessary. You could<br />
go through life wonderfully messy, searching for stuff, enjoying the<br />
search. But I&#8217;ve tried disorganized, and I&#8217;ve tried organized. The<br />
second is much more enjoyable to me. Read <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/how-to-never-lose-a-thing-again/">How to Never Lose Anything Again</a> for a start on the subject, as well as <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/01/baby-makes-eight-raising-six-kids-part_30/">how I keep my family organized</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Think positive</strong>. Another one of the most important<br />
tips on this list, thinking positive as cliche as it might sound  is<br />
one of the single best changes you can make in your life that will lead<br />
to so many more positive tips. As I <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/top-20-motivation-hacks-1/">wrote about here</a>, learning to think positive was the skill that turned my life around. It makes everything else on this list possible. Read <a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/why-henry-ford-knew-more-than-the-secret.html">more about it here</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Simplify your finances</strong>. Cut down on the number of accounts you have, cut down on your credit cards, spend less, reduce your bills. <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/how-to-make-your-finances-automagical/">Make your finances automagical</a>.  Simplifying your finances greatly reduces your stress. Also see <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/03/10-habits-to-develop-for-financial/">10 Habits to Develop For Financial Stability and Success</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Simplify your life</strong>. Another of my top tips. Iâ€™ve<br />
greatly simplified my life, in many ways, and I can say that having<br />
less stuff in my life, and less to do, has greatly increased my<br />
enjoyment of life. <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/01/zen-mind-how-to-declutter/">De-clutter</a>, <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/edit-your-life-part-1-commitments/">simplify your commitments</a>, <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/03/edit-your-life-part-4-your-work-space/">simplify your work space</a>, <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/edit-your-life-part-4-your-wardrobe/">simplify your wardrobe</a>, <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/03/edit-your-life-part-2-your-rooms/">simplify your rooms</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Accept what you have</strong>. The problem with many of us<br />
is that we always think that we&#8217;ll be happy when we reach a certain<br />
destination, when we get a certain job, or retire, or get our dream<br />
house. Unfortunately, it takes awhile before you get there, and when<br />
you get there, you might have a new destination in mind. Instead, try<br />
being happy with where you are, with who you are, and what you have. To<br />
do that, instead of comparing what you have with other people, or with<br />
what you want, compare yourself those who have less, with those who are<br />
going through tragedy, with those who are struggling. You will see that<br />
you actually are extremely blessed. And this can lead to more happiness<br />
with your current situation.</li>
<li><strong> Envision your ultimate life</strong>. What would your<br />
ultimate life be like? Where would you live, what would you do, what<br />
would you do with your days? Come up with a clear picture of this, and<br />
write it down. Now, one step at a time, make it come true. Some ways of<br />
doing that follow.</li>
<li><strong>Set long-term goals</strong>. Your vision of your ultimate<br />
life will help you come up with long-term goals. Of those goals, pick<br />
one to accomplish within the next year, and really focus on that. Now,<br />
pick one medium-term goal to achieve in the next few months that will<br />
get you further toward your longer-term goal. Now decide what you can<br />
do this week, and today, to get you to your medium-term goal. Just<br />
choose one thing at a time, focus on it, make it happen, and then<br />
choose the next thing to focus on. See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/think-about-your-life-goals/">Think About Your Life Goals</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Review goals</strong>. Setting goals is important, but the<br />
key to making them a reality is actually reviewing them (at least<br />
monthly, but weekly is better) and taking action steps to make them<br />
come true. Again, focus on one at a time, and really focus on them.<br />
Read <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/review-your-goals-weekly/">Review Your Goals Weekly</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Life mission</strong>. Related to envisioning your ultimate<br />
life, but different &#8211; it&#8217;s important that you think about how you would<br />
like to be remembered when you die &#8211; so you can start living the life<br />
that leads to that now. Live with purpose in life, and wake up every<br />
day with that purpose in mind. Read <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/the-key-to-dying-happy/">the Key to Dying Happy</a> for more concrete steps.</li>
<li><strong>Plan your big tasks for week and day</strong>. Give purpose<br />
to your day by determining the three most important things you can do<br />
with your day, and making those a priority. Do the same thing with your<br />
week to increase your productivity: pick out the big tasks you&#8217;d like<br />
to accomplish this week, and schedule those first. See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/purpose-your-day-most-important-task/">Purpose Your Day</a> and <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/big-rocks-first-double-your-productivity-this-week/">Plan Your Big Rocks First</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Maintain focus</strong>. One important key to achieving<br />
your goals is to maintain focus on them. To do this, again, it&#8217;s<br />
important that you select one goal at a time. This will prevent your<br />
focus from spreading too thin. It&#8217;s also important that you give<br />
yourself constant reminders of your goal, so you don&#8217;t lose that focus.<br />
Put up a poster of your current goal, or print it out and put it out<br />
somewhere visible, and send yourself emailed reminders. However you do<br />
it, find a way to maintain a laser-sharp focus, and the goal will come<br />
true.</li>
<li><strong>Enjoy the journey</strong>. Goals are important, but not at<br />
the expense of happiness now. It&#8217;s important to maintain a balance<br />
between going where you want to go, and being happy as you go there.<br />
It&#8217;s easy to forget that, so be sure to remind yourself of this little,<br />
but important, tip as you make your journey.</li>
<li><strong>Create a morning and evening routine</strong>. These are<br />
two great ways to add structure to your day, make sure you review your<br />
goals and log your progress, and get your day off to a great start. An <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/jumpstart-your-day-night-before-evening/">evening routine</a>,<br />
for example, could be a great way not only to wind down from a long day<br />
and review how your day went, but to prepare yourself for your next day<br />
so the morning isn&#8217;t so hectic. Your <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/01/habit-4-my-morning-routine/">morning routine</a><br />
is great way to greet the day, to get some exercise or meditation or<br />
quiet contemplation, or to get some writing or other work done.</li>
<li><strong>Develop intimate relationships</strong>. It&#8217;s great to have<br />
a special someone, of course, but intimate relationships could be found<br />
with anyone around you. If you have a significant other, be sure to<br />
spend time each day and each week with that person, to work on your<br />
relationship and communicate and continue to bond. But if you don&#8217;t,<br />
there&#8217;s no need to despair (if in fact you are)  intimate<br />
relationships can be developed with friends, other family members,<br />
kids, roommates, classmate, co-workers. Every single person we meet is<br />
a fellow human being, with the same desires for happiness, for food and<br />
shelter, for an intimate connection. Find that common thread, be open<br />
and sincere, find out more about each other, understand each other, and<br />
give love. This can be one of the most important things you do.</li>
<li><strong>Eliminate debt</strong>. Financially, this is a huge way to<br />
relieve stress and make you feel much more secure. I suggest that you<br />
get rid of your credit cards (if you have a problem with credit card<br />
debt or impulse spending) and <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/03/eliminate-debt-with-the-snowball/">create a snowball plan</a> for yourself. It may take a couple of years, but you can get out of debt.</li>
<li><strong>Enjoy the simple pleasures</strong>. You can find these<br />
everywhere. Food (I love berries!), sunsets, sand between your toes,<br />
fresh-cut grass, playing with your child, a good book and a warm bed,<br />
dancing in the rain, your favorite music. You could probably make a<br />
list of 20 simple pleasures right now, things you enjoy that you could<br />
find every day. Sprinkle those little pleasures throughout your day. It<br />
makes the journey much more enjoyable.</li>
<li><strong>Empty your inbox and clear your desk</strong>. This might take a little while to do at first, but once you&#8217;ve <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/01/email-zen-clear-out-your-inbox/">emptied your inbox</a> and <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2006/11/steps-to-permanently-clear-desk/">cleared off your desk</a>,<br />
it doesn&#8217;t take long to keep them clear from then on. It&#8217;s a simple<br />
habit that&#8217;s vastly rewarding. I get an inordinate amount of pleasure<br />
from having a clean desk. I recommend you give it a try.</li>
<li><strong>Build an emergency fund</strong>. This is standard-issue<br />
financial advice, I know and yet it is extremely important. I cannot<br />
stress how important it is to have at least a tiny emergency fund in<br />
the bank. You often hear that you should have six months saved up.<br />
Don&#8217;t be intimidated by that. Start out with just a hundred dollars if<br />
you can. Cut back on a few things. Then build it up, every payday. Once<br />
you have, let&#8217;s say, $1,000, it will make a huge difference in your<br />
life. It&#8217;s not much, and you should still add to it every paycheck, but<br />
at least now you&#8217;re not living paycheck-to-paycheck, and if an<br />
unexpected emergency comes up you can pay for it, rather than not<br />
paying other bills and falling behind. It&#8217;s a simple step, but it will<br />
mean a lot.</li>
<li><strong>Keep a journal</strong>. This is not one of the more<br />
important tips, but I can attest that it&#8217;s rewarding. I, for one, have<br />
a bad long-term memory, and by writing things down, I can look back and<br />
remember what happened a month ago. I just started this a couple months<br />
ago, actually, but it&#8217;s been awesome. I started an online journal,<br />
something I call the one-sentence journal, and my goal is to just write<br />
one sentence a day. Sometimes I write two or three, but the idea is the<br />
same &#8211; just get one or two things down that happened that day, so I can<br />
always look back on it later.</li>
<li><strong>Use the power of others</strong>. Achieving your goals can<br />
be difficult, but using the power of others makes it much more likely<br />
to happen. For example, put positive public pressure on yourself by<br />
announcing your goal on your blog. Or join an online forum, or a group<br />
in your neighborhood, that you can count on for support. I have a<br />
mailing list for the May Challenge here on Zen Habits, for example, and<br />
our group has helped me stick to my goal of daily exercise even when I<br />
started to falter &#8211; and the rest of the group can tell you they&#8217;ve<br />
experienced similar success because of the positive power of the group.</li>
<li><strong>Read, and read to your kids</strong>. I read all the time -<br />
it&#8217;s one of my favorite things to do in the world. I love to curl up<br />
with a good novel (or even a trashy one) and I can waste away an<br />
afternoon with a book. And I&#8217;m passing on my love of reading to my<br />
kids, by reading to them every day. I love spending time with them this<br />
way, and we all enjoy the stories we share together through books. See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/03/best-all-time-childrens-books/">Best All-time Children&#8217;s Books</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Limit your information intake</strong>. In our lives today,<br />
we get a tremendous amount of information through email, blog feeds,<br />
reading websites, paperwork, memos, newspapers, magazines, television,<br />
DVDs, radio, mobile phones and Blackberries. Not only can this be<br />
overwhelming, but it can be distracting and can fill up your life until<br />
you have no time for more important things. <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/edit-your-life-part-6-a-media-fast/">Go on a media fast</a> to get control over your information intake, and to simplify your life</li>
<li><strong> Create simple systems</strong>. Once you&#8217;ve simplified<br />
your life, the way to keep it simple is by creating systems for<br />
everything you do regularly. Create an efficient system for laundry,<br />
mail and paperwork, errands, your workflow. Anything, really. See ways<br />
to <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/streamline-your-life/">Streamline Your Life</a> and to <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/6-simple-steps-to-make-mail-paperwork-painless/">make your mail and paperwork painless</a>.</li>
<li> <strong>Take time to decompress after stress</strong>. There will<br />
inevitably be times in your life when you go through high stress.<br />
Perhaps several times a week. To maintain your sanity, you need to find<br />
ways to decompress. Here are <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/12-ways-to-decompress-after-high-stress/">some great ways to do that</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Be present</strong>. Time can go by extremely quickly.<br />
Before you know it, your life has passed you by. Your kids are grown<br />
and your youth is gone. Don&#8217;t let your life slip by &#8211; enjoy it while<br />
it&#8217;s here. Instead of dwelling in the past or thinking about the<br />
future, practice being in the here and now. Here are <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/practical-tips-to-practice-being-present/">some practical tips for being present</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Develop equanimity</strong>. Keep your sanity through all<br />
the challenges that life throws at you. Rude drivers, irritating<br />
co-workers, mean commenters on your blog, inconsiderate family members.<br />
This takes a bit of practice, but you can let these things slide off<br />
you like you&#8217;re Teflon. Try <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/04/calm-as-a-monk-how-equanimity-can-save-your-sanity/">these practical tips</a>.</li>
<li><strong> Spend time with family and loved ones</strong>. One of the<br />
things that can lead to the greatest happiness, make this a priority<br />
every week, every day. Clear off as much time as possible to spend with<br />
those you love, and truly enjoy those times. Be present as you do it -<br />
don&#8217;t think about work or your blog or what you need to do. Read <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/03/spend-time-with-family-and-loved-ones/">this for more</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Pick yourself up when you&#8217;re down</strong>. There will<br />
always be times in our lives when we get a little down, even depressed.<br />
Take action to get yourself out of your slump. <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/feeling-down-7-ways-to-pick-yourself/">Here are some great ways to do that</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t compare yourself to others</strong>. This is hard to<br />
do, but it can be a great way to accept who you are and what you have.<br />
Whenever you find yourself comparing yourself to a co-worker, a friend,<br />
or someone famous (those models on magazines with amazing abs), stop.<br />
And realize that you are different, with different strengths. Take a<br />
minute to appreciate all the good things about yourself, and to be<br />
grateful for all the blessings in your life.</li>
<li><strong>Focus on benefits, not difficulties</strong>. If you find<br />
yourself struggling to do something, or procrastinating, stop thinking<br />
about how hard something is, or why you don&#8217;t want to do it. Focus<br />
instead on what benefits it will have for you, what opportunities it<br />
will create &#8211; the good things about it. By changing the way you see<br />
things, you can change how you feel about them and make it easier to<br />
get things done.</li>
<li><strong>Be romantic</strong>. If you have that special someone,<br />
find little ways to be romantic. It can do wonders to keep your<br />
relationship alive and fresh. It doesn&#8217;t take tons of money, either.<br />
See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/03/cheap-but-great-dates/">these ideas to get you started</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Lose arguments</strong>. I know someone who just celebrated<br />
his 50th anniversary, and I asked him for his secret to a long and<br />
happy marriage. He told me, that if I ever get into an argument with my<br />
wife, to just shut up. What he meant, I think, is that I shouldn&#8217;t try<br />
to be right in every argument. I think this is a reminder many of us<br />
need, not just the married ones. But instead of just giving up the<br />
argument, instead of trying to be right, instead seek to understand.<br />
Really try to understand the other person&#8217;s position, to see it from<br />
their point of view. This little tip can lead to much happiness.</li>
<li><strong>Get into the flow</strong>. This is both a happiness and<br />
productivity tip. Flow is the term for the state we enter when we are<br />
completely focused on the work or task before us. We are so immersed in<br />
our task that we lose track of time. Having work and leisure that gets<br />
you in this state of flow will almost undoubtedly lead to happiness.<br />
People find greatest enjoyment not when they&#8217;re passively mindless, but<br />
when they&#8217;re absorbed in a mindful challenge. Get into that flow by<br />
first doing something you are passionate about, and second by<br />
eliminating all distractions and really focusing on the task before you.</li>
<li><strong> Single-task</strong>. I don&#8217;t believe in multi-tasking, at<br />
least not on a day-to-day basis. Instead, focus on one task at a time.<br />
This leads to greater productivity and less stress. You can&#8217;t go wrong<br />
with that kind of combination. See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/how-not-to-multitask-work-simpler-and/">these tips for more</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Be frugal</strong>. This is a habit, rather than a goal. It<br />
is a way of living, a different mindset, and the best way to live<br />
within your means. It doesn&#8217;t mean being cheap or forsaking pleasure,<br />
but it does mean finding less expensive ways to do things, learning to<br />
live with less (and be happier in the process), and controlling impulse<br />
spending. I don&#8217;t have a single article to give you as reference, but<br />
frugality is a recurring theme on Zen Habits.</li>
<li><strong>Start small and slow</strong>. Regular Zen Habits readers<br />
know that I advocate starting slow with any goal or habit change, and<br />
starting with a small goal rather than a big one. Why small? Because<br />
it&#8217;s something you are sure to achieve &#8211; and once you do achieve it,<br />
you can use that success to push you to further success. It&#8217;s a simple<br />
technique, but it really works. Start slow when you start exercise, or<br />
other similar activities &#8211; there&#8217;s no need to rush it in the beginning,<br />
to overdo it. You have the rest of your life!</li>
<li><strong>Learn to deal with detractors</strong>. We all face<br />
detractors in our lives. They are the naysayers who, even if they are<br />
well-intentioned, will make us feel unworthy, or that you cannot<br />
achieve a goal. They will tease or be negative. In order to achieve<br />
your goals, you need to learn how to deal with these detractors and<br />
overcome this common obstacle. Read <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/best-8-ways-to-deal-with-detractors/">these tips for some ideas</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Go outdoors</strong>. These days, too many of us spend so<br />
much of our time indoors, especially if our jobs and our ways of having<br />
fun are all online. Our kids are often just as bad or worse, with so<br />
many ways to watch TV, surf the internet or play video games. Get them<br />
and yourself outdoors, appreciate nature, the beauty of the world<br />
around us, and the fun of physical activity. See <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/get-kids-outdoors/">this article for more ideas</a> (to do with or without kids).</li>
<li><strong>Retire early</strong>. This isn&#8217;t a sure way to become<br />
happy &#8211; you can retire and be bored out of your mind and unhappy &#8211; but<br />
it&#8217;s surely a cool goal. And if you do something meaningful with your<br />
life, such as volunteer and help others, it can be a way to be really<br />
happy. It&#8217;s not an easy goal, either, but you can retire early by<br />
cutting back on your living expenses, increasing your income, and<br />
investing the difference. The more you can do of all three, the fast<br />
you&#8217;ll retire. And that&#8217;s a truly liberating idea.</li>
<li><strong>Savor the little things</strong>. Sure, the big things can<br />
bring big pleasure, but there are so many more little things in our<br />
lives. Savor them when they come up. It&#8217;s a way of practicing being<br />
present &#8211; stop and notice what you&#8217;re doing right now, what&#8217;s around<br />
you. And take time to enjoy it. Read <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/02/happiness-friday-savor-little-things/">this article for more</a>.</li>
<li><strong> Be lazy</strong>. There&#8217;s a time to be productive, and<br />
there&#8217;s a time to be plain ol&#8217; lazy. I like the latter, and do it every<br />
chance I get. Does that make me a lazy person? Probably not, but even<br />
if it does, I don&#8217;t care. It makes me happy, and the kids love being<br />
lazy with me.</li>
<li><strong>Help others</strong>. While finding pleasure in life is one<br />
way to be happy, doing something that is more than you, that helps<br />
others to be happy or to suffer less, is even more rewarding. I suggest<br />
you find a good cause or two and volunteer some of your time. You don&#8217;t<br />
have to commit to big chunks of your life, but just volunteer for a<br />
couple of hours. All of us can find a couple of hours in a week or a<br />
month. If you do this, you will find out how tremendously happy this<br />
will make you. You might even become addicted.</li>
</ol>
<p><br/>Copy / paste from <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/handbook-for-life-52-tips-for-happiness-and-productivity/">Zen Habits</a><br/> </p>
<p>Originally posted on <a href="http://irmavermaat.vox.com/library/post/52-tips-for-happiness-and-productivity.html">irmavermaat.vox.com</a></p>
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<p>2.
Prepare for the morning the evening before. Set the breakfast table.
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<p><strong>2.</strong><br />
Prepare for the morning the evening before. Set the breakfast table.<br />
Make lunches. Put out the clothes you plan to wear, etc.</p>
<p><strong>3.</strong><br />
Don&#8217;t rely on your memory. Write down appointment times, when to pick<br />
up the laundry, when library books are due, etc. (&#8220;The palest ink is<br />
better than the most retentive memory.&#8221;- Old Chinese Proverb)</p>
<p><strong>4.</strong> Do nothing you have to lie about later.</p>
<p><strong>5.</strong><br />
Make copies of all keys. Bury a house key in a secret spot in the<br />
garden. Carry a duplicate car key in your wallet, apart from your key<br />
ring.</p>
<p><strong>6.</strong> Practice preventive maintenance. Your car,<br />
appliances, home and relationships will be less likely to break down<br />
&#8220;at the worst possible moment.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>7.</strong> Be prepared to wait. A paperback book can make a wait in a post        office line almost pleasant.</p>
<p><strong>8.</strong> Procrastination is stressful. Whatever you want to do tomorrow,        do today; whatever you want to do today, do it now.</p>
<p><strong>9.</strong><br />
Plan ahead. Don&#8217;t let the gas tank get below onequarter full, keep a<br />
well- stocked &#8220;emergency shelf&#8221; of home staples, don&#8217;t wait until<br />
you&#8217;re down to your last bus token or postage stamp to buy more, etc.</p>
<p><strong>10.</strong><br />
Don&#8217;t put up with something that doesn&#8217;t work right. If your alarm<br />
clock wallet, shoe laces, windshield wipers-whatever-are a constant<br />
aggravation, get them fixed or get new ones.</p>
<p><strong>11.</strong> Allow 15 minutes of extra time to get to appointments. Plan to        arrive at an airport one hour before domestic departures.</p>
<p><strong>12.</strong> Eliminate (or restrict) the amount of caffeine in your diet.</p>
<p><strong>13.</strong><br />
Always set up contingency plans, &#8220;just in case.&#8221; (&#8220;If for some reason<br />
either of us is delayed, here&#8217;s what we&#8217;ll do&#8230;&#8221; Or, &#8220;If we get split<br />
up in the shopping center, here&#8217;s where we&#8217;ll meet.&#8221;)</p>
<p><strong>14.</strong> Relax your standards. The world will not end if the grass doesn&#8217;t        get mowed this weekend.</p>
<p><strong>15.</strong> Pollyanna-Power! For every one thing that goes wrong, there are        probably 10 or 50 or 100 blessings. Count &#8216;em!</p>
<p><strong>16.</strong><br />
Ask questions. Taking a few moments to repeat back the directions that<br />
someone expects of you, etc., can save hours. (The old &#8220;the hurrieder I<br />
go, the behinder I get&#8221; idea.)</p>
<p><strong>17.</strong> Say &#8220;No!&#8221; Saying no to<br />
extra projects, social activities and invitations you know you don&#8217;t<br />
have the time or energy for takes practice, self-respect and a belief<br />
that everyone, everyday, needs quiet time to relax and to be alone.</p>
<p><strong>18.</strong><br />
Unplug your phone. Want to take a long bath, meditate, sleep or read<br />
without interruption? Drum up the courage to temporarily disconnect.</p>
<p>       (The possibility of there being a terrible emergency in the next hour or        so is almost nil.)</p>
<p><strong>19.</strong><br />
Turn &#8220;needs&#8221; into preferences. Our basic physical needs translate into<br />
food, water, and keeping warm. Everything else is a preference. Don&#8217;t<br />
get attached to preferences.</p>
<p><strong>20.</strong> Simplify, simplify, simplify.</p>
<p><strong>21.</strong> Make friends with nonworriers. Chronic worrywarts are contagious.</p>
<p><strong>22.</strong> Take many stretch breaks when you sit a lot.<br/><strong>23.</strong> If you can&#8217;t find quiet at home, wear        earplugs.</p>
<p><strong>24.</strong> Get enough sleep. Set your alarm for bedtime.</p>
<p><strong>25.</strong> Organize! A place for everything and everything in its place.        Losing things is stressful.</p>
<p><strong>26.</strong><br />
Monitor your body for stress signs. If your stomach muscles are knotted<br />
and your breathing is shallow, relax your muscles and take some deep,<br />
slow breaths.</p>
<p><strong>27.</strong> Write your thoughts and feelings down on paper. It can help you        clarify and give you a renewed perspective.</p>
<p><strong>28.</strong><br />
Do this yoga exercise when you need to relax: Inhale through your nose<br />
to the count of eight. Pucker your lips and exhale slowly to the count<br />
of 16. Concentrate on the long sighing sound and feel the tension<br />
dissolve. Repeat 10 times.</p>
<p><strong>29.</strong> Visualize success before<br />
any experience you fear. Take time to go over every part of the event<br />
in your mind. Imagine how great you will look, and how well you will<br />
present yourself.</p>
<p><strong>30.</strong> If the stress of deadlines gets in<br />
the way of doing a job, use diversion. Take your mind off the task and<br />
you will focus better when you&#8217;re on task.</p>
<p><strong>31.</strong> Talk out your problems with a friend. It helps to relieve confusion.</p>
<p><strong>32.</strong><br />
Avoid people and places that don&#8217;t fit your personal needs and desires.<br />
If you hate politics, don&#8217;t spend time with politically excited people.</p>
<p><strong>33.</strong> Learn to live one day at a time.</p>
<p><strong>34.</strong> Everyday, do something you really enjoy.</p>
<p><strong>35.</strong> Add an ounce of love to everything you do.</p>
<p><strong>36.</strong> Take a bath or shower to relieve tension.</p>
<p><strong>37.</strong> Do a favor for someone every day.</p>
<p><strong>38.</strong> Focus on understanding rather than on being under stood, on loving        rather than on being loved.</p>
<p><strong>39.</strong> Looking good makes you feel better.</p>
<p><strong>40.</strong> Take more time between tasks to relax. Schedule a realistic day.</p>
<p><strong>41.</strong> Be flexible. Some things are not worth perfection.</p>
<p><strong>42.</strong> Stop negative self-talk: &#8220;I&#8217;m too fat, too old, etc&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>43.</strong><br />
Change pace on weekends. If your week was slow, be active. If you felt<br />
nothing was accomplished during the week, do a weekend project.</p>
<p><strong>44.</strong> &#8220;Worry about the pennies, and the dollars will take care        of themselves.&#8221; Pay attention to the details in front of you.</p>
<p><strong>45.</strong> Do one thing at a time. When you are working on one thing, don&#8217;t        think about everything else you have to do.</p>
<p><strong>46.</strong> Allow time every day for privacy, quiet and thinking.</p>
<p><strong>47.</strong> Do unpleasant tasks early and enjoy the rest of the day.</p>
<p><strong>48.</strong> Delegate responsibility to capable people.</p>
<p><strong>49.</strong> Take lunch breaks. Get away from your work in body and in mind.</p>
<p><strong>50.</strong> Count to 1,000, not 10, before you say something that could make        matters worse.</p>
<p><strong>51.</strong> Forgive people and events. Accept that we live in an imperfect        world.</p>
<p><strong>52.</strong> Have an optimistic view of the world. Most people do the best        they can.</p>
<p><a href="http://insteadofwork.net/post/1627200">Source</a><br/> </p>
<p>Originally posted on <a href="http://irmavermaat.vox.com/library/post/52-proven-stress-reducers.html">irmavermaat.vox.com</a></p>
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